eggsngrits said:
Looking at the Bentley wiring diagram, I wonder: Do the wipers work on the intermittent setting? That is, do they actually pulse-rest-pulse-rest, etc? If so, do they kill the engine in that mode?
I'll be unable to post for a few days, so here's my reasoning:
If the wipers work on the intermittent setting and still kill the engine, then pursue the remedies as described above -- look at grounds, alternator/voltage regulator issues, etc.
If the wipers work on intermittent and don't kill the engine, your relay is probably ok, pursue the other remedies and replace the relay if those things don't improve the situation.
If the wipers don't work at all on intermittent, then I would say that the relay should be the first thing to replace.