Normally I would say check the NTC sensor at this point, but you've already replaced that
here . You also say you have creamy 'mayo' substance round the dipstick in
this thread and Si quite rightly states that this is symptomatic of head gasket failure. A failing head gasket will cause stalling, idling problems, starting problems, overheating problems, and of course mayo on the dipstick - everything that you have been experiencing. Do a
search using the keywords head gasket to see if there's any other symptoms to confirm it.
The way to tell for sure is to get a compression test done and get a mechanic to test for the presence of hydrocarbons in the expansion tank. But it sounds to me a lot like you don't have 5 unrelated minor issues, you've just got the one major one.